Thursday, December 18, 2014
Monday, December 15, 2014
Friday, December 12, 2014
The dignity of a haircut
The New York Times just featured the story of hairstylist Mark Bustos. His weekdays are filled by giving $150 haircuts, often to celebrities. But his Sundays? His Sundays are dedicated to giving free haircuts to the homeless of New York City.
The story of Mark Bustos' unique way of affirming the dignity of the person is here.
The story of Mark Bustos' unique way of affirming the dignity of the person is here.
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Christmas gift list ... or should I say book list
It's been awhile since I've offered a Theology of the Body-inspired Christmas list for those of you looking for gift ideas (whether for friends and family or for your own wish list). This year, though, I've seen sufficient new material to warrant a new post. I try to stick with new resources, though a few other ideas might pop up in the list.
First up, we have Prof. Stanislaw Grygiel's "Discovering the Human Person: In Conversation with John Paul II." The "in conversation" phrase seems to be applied rather liberally to biographies and studies of saints, but this particular book is written by a student and friend of the late Holy Father. I have not read the book yet but was able to hear some of Prof. Grygiel's reflections in person at the John Paul Institute in Washington, DC. He always had beautiful insights to share, and left us in awe of his personal experiences with the late Holy Father.
While we're on the subject of St. John Paul, I'd highly recommend Jason Evert's St. John Paul the Great: His Five Loves Or, for about triple the cost of one book, purchase 32 copies in paperback to give to all of your friends. Leave a copy on a coffee shop table with a note to anyone who would like to take it. It's a different kind of biography -- a collection of verified stories of JPII that give fresh insight into who he was and what he loved. My copy is quite underlined and asterisked.
These Beautiful Bones: An Everyday Theology of the Body by Emily Stimpson didn't come out this past year, but made its debut late enough in 2013 to warrant a mention. What a beautiful book! Emily Stimpson is a gifted writer, with words simply flowing from her pen in such a way as to captivate the reader with her beauty, humor and insight. Her book seeks to go beyond the idea that Theology of the Body is "just about sex" and instead to challenge us all to see how we can live TOB more fully in other areas of our lives (manners, what we eat, how we work, etc.). It's the perfect book for the TOB aficionado and the person who has never heard of Theology of the Body. All will find insight, challenge and beauty.
Another book that I have not yet read but which looks quite promising is Anthony Esolen's Defending Marriage: Twelve Arguments for Sanity. I've long found Prof. Esolen's writing to be engaging, witty and enlightening, and I have no doubt his reflections on this important matter will not disappoint.
For the newly expecting couple, "Gift of Joy: The Blessing of the Child in the Womb" is excellent. The actual blessing is not in the book. Instead, co-authors Archbishop Joseph Kurtz and Msgr. Brian Bransfield introduce parents more fully into comprehending the mystery they are living while awaiting the birth of their child.
I'm sure there are plenty of other items I could add, though I risk not posting this until it's too late to purchase these books in time for Christmas. For the Theology of the Body or St. John Paul II fans in your life, chances are likely that at least one of these items is not yet in their possession.
Happy gift-giving and receiving!
First up, we have Prof. Stanislaw Grygiel's "Discovering the Human Person: In Conversation with John Paul II." The "in conversation" phrase seems to be applied rather liberally to biographies and studies of saints, but this particular book is written by a student and friend of the late Holy Father. I have not read the book yet but was able to hear some of Prof. Grygiel's reflections in person at the John Paul Institute in Washington, DC. He always had beautiful insights to share, and left us in awe of his personal experiences with the late Holy Father.
While we're on the subject of St. John Paul, I'd highly recommend Jason Evert's St. John Paul the Great: His Five Loves Or, for about triple the cost of one book, purchase 32 copies in paperback to give to all of your friends. Leave a copy on a coffee shop table with a note to anyone who would like to take it. It's a different kind of biography -- a collection of verified stories of JPII that give fresh insight into who he was and what he loved. My copy is quite underlined and asterisked.
These Beautiful Bones: An Everyday Theology of the Body by Emily Stimpson didn't come out this past year, but made its debut late enough in 2013 to warrant a mention. What a beautiful book! Emily Stimpson is a gifted writer, with words simply flowing from her pen in such a way as to captivate the reader with her beauty, humor and insight. Her book seeks to go beyond the idea that Theology of the Body is "just about sex" and instead to challenge us all to see how we can live TOB more fully in other areas of our lives (manners, what we eat, how we work, etc.). It's the perfect book for the TOB aficionado and the person who has never heard of Theology of the Body. All will find insight, challenge and beauty.
Another book that I have not yet read but which looks quite promising is Anthony Esolen's Defending Marriage: Twelve Arguments for Sanity. I've long found Prof. Esolen's writing to be engaging, witty and enlightening, and I have no doubt his reflections on this important matter will not disappoint.
For the newly expecting couple, "Gift of Joy: The Blessing of the Child in the Womb" is excellent. The actual blessing is not in the book. Instead, co-authors Archbishop Joseph Kurtz and Msgr. Brian Bransfield introduce parents more fully into comprehending the mystery they are living while awaiting the birth of their child.
I'm sure there are plenty of other items I could add, though I risk not posting this until it's too late to purchase these books in time for Christmas. For the Theology of the Body or St. John Paul II fans in your life, chances are likely that at least one of these items is not yet in their possession.
Happy gift-giving and receiving!
Monday, December 1, 2014
Why not live together before marriage?
One of the resources people ask me for are articles or pamphlets about cohabitation. Why not live together before marriage? It's virtually assumed today that two people planning on marriage will share the same address before exchanging rings.
There are quite a few articles and summaries of the problems with cohabitation, but today's IBelieveinLove.com article, "Why I Don't Live With My Fiance" was one of the best, simple explanations I have seen.
Read the rest of the article here. It's worth bookmarking and sharing when you need a handy answer to a common question.
There are quite a few articles and summaries of the problems with cohabitation, but today's IBelieveinLove.com article, "Why I Don't Live With My Fiance" was one of the best, simple explanations I have seen.
I don’t want to live with my fiancé because his title says it all. He’s still my fiancé. He’s not my spouse. He’s not the man I married—he’s the man I will marry. And when we’re married, we will move in together. Why then?
Because then I will know it won’t be a decision based on finances or split rent. It won’t be a decision based on the desire to sleep with each other. It won’t be a decision based on a trial run to see how things go and with an easy out when the going gets tough.
Rather, our decision to move in together will be based on a public profession to love each other in good times and bad, in sickness and health, until death do us part. It will be a decision based on mutual self-respect in a way that says, “You are worth more to me than a split rent check. You are worth more to me than any self-gratification. I don’t need a trial run of living together because I already know I want to spend the rest of my life with you,” that’s what dating is for!
Read the rest of the article here. It's worth bookmarking and sharing when you need a handy answer to a common question.
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